me after watching HGTV: okay the laminate needs to go, place some exposed brick in this area, the red clashes with the beige, I’d also like to add some shelving, less pattern is needed, is this wall asbestos-free?
Relationships are scary and complicated ONLY when you start thinking of your partner as some kind of adversary.
You know how to stop being scared of relationships? Remember that it’s got a goddamn buddy system *built in*. That’s all a relationship IS: “Let’s approach life with the buddy system.”
Check on your buddy. Make sure your buddy doesn’t forget their lunch box on the schoolbus. Hold hands with your buddy so you don’t get lost. If your buddy wants to look at the monkey cage, look at the goddamn monkey cage with them. If you are the one looking at the monkey cage, ask your buddy what they want to do next, and when they want to feed the giraffe, help them find a quarter for the little food dispenser. Be a good buddy, and if your buddy isn’t a good one too, tell the teacher and ask for a new one.
This isn’t fucking rocket science, people.
A random guy paid me a compliment and why it was okay
So, in starbucks today, a random guy came up to my and told me I was very pretty and nice eyes.
And, as a feminist, I was okay with it.
Because he did it correctly.
He stood four feet away from me and started out with “excuse me” and waited until I nodded before approaching. He then introduced himself and we shook hands and then he gave a compliment and went on his way.
He didnt catcall. He didnt harass. He didnt use inappropriate language. He asked for permission.
Take note, gentlemen.
i just loved the fact that he actually WAITED for her CONSENT
BEFORE approaching her
and not only that
he didn’t sexualize her
i mean
finally, someone gets it
I feel like this is important to share, because we get so much shit from guys who are like “so what, we can’t EVER compliment a woman without it being harassment??” No. No one said that. I have received compliments and I have received street harassment, and I promise you I can tell you which is which.
danny fenton:
-wears a shirt to the water park
-accidentally uses the womens restroom
-“i would tell you to use the mens room but i dont think you qualify”
-chest occasionally bulges in his ghost suit
-is a trans boy
reblog this make cis people mad that im “ruining their childhood”
literally the entire show danny phantom was a metaphor for being in the closet tho??? cis people get mad at the most asinine shit
I don’t really mind a trans boy in kids cartoons but may I see actual sources and visual proof?
Danny Fenton
-constantly having to hide a core part of his identity from his family due to fear of rejection
-constantly has to deal with his family’s casual(and often not so casual) hatred of ghosts, a group to which he belongs.
-is only out as a ghost to a select group of his closest friends who he trusts with his secret.
liteally how could you not interpret this as a metaphor for being in the closet
(with your url being the one in the text description, im using an rp blog to do this)
your blocked page will look like this, hover over the icon to see the url
if the user was following you before, it will force unfollow you. hitting the follow button again shows that you followed them, but when you refresh you will still not be following them. they will also not show up in your followers list.
attempting to follow a blog you have blocked will give you this message:
which DOES unblock the user.
attempting to reblog a post from a blocked user will give you this message:
and send you back to your dash
blocked users will be allowed to send asks, but you wont receive any of them (that is to say, if they type anything into the ask, it will give them a confirmation message, but you wont actually get it)
you are able to reblog from a user you have blocked, and your asks will go through to them too. private answering gives you an error message (sorry, we are having technical trouble)
you are also able to submit posts, but blocked users cannot send you submissions (they will get a confirmation saying it went through, but it wont, like with asks)
